Did you know that I shouldn’t be blogging about my children all the time? It doesn’t matter that Alyssa, my toddler, and Ryan, my infant, (dammit, there I go mentioning my children! Bad Jenn!) are a huge part of my life. What matters is that I bore people by talking about them. Therefore, even though this is my personal blog, and like most personal blogs is a journal to chronicle tidbits of my life in, I shouldn’t be talking about my children because they bore people.
Did you also know that mothers only have the right to be excited about their first pregnancy? Apparently I can generate hype and post lots of newborn pictures, but only for my firstborn. Ryan will just have to go pound sand. So remember ladies – you can only be excited about the first! After that, pfft, it’s just another baby, another mouth to feed. Absolutely nothing to get excited about.
These aren’t my thoughts, by the way. They belong to her. Despite the common idea of, “if you don’t like it, don’t read”, she continues to read, and obviously got her ass all up in the air. Wow, is all I can say.
My comment to her (while she has no problems dishing it out, I don’t really expect her to approve my comment):
Chanel, I have to say, I am surprised and disappointed in such a nasty rant. I’m also sadly amused, as most of it is based on the ridiculous idea that mothers shouldn’t be blogging about what goes on in their life (mainly, their children), and that mothers can only be excited about their first pregnancy and not the subsequent ones.
Also, if your only attack against me is that I deleted your comment, you’ll find that you’re sadly mistake. In a few instances your comment may have been held for moderation for me to login and manually approve (usually because a word or two triggers it, or a link, etc.), but it has always been approved. You’ll find a list of all of your comments below:http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2006/08/26/ryan-one-month-old/#comment-36678
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2006/08/06/holy-zzzzzzs-batman/#comment-35826
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2006/04/17/just-go-ahead-and-laugh/#comment-30162
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2005/03/28/blah/#comment-20546
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2005/03/06/mmmsleepzzzzzzz/#comment-19735
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2005/03/05/w00t/#comment-19691
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2005/02/19/yay/#comment-19129
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2005/02/10/germs/#comment-18683
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2005/02/02/aww/#comment-18262
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2004/08/21/wtf-thief/#comment-8990
http://www.girlsaysmwah.com/2004/08/02/apartment/#comment-8320
I always thought you were a really cool chick, even if I didn’t always comment. But now? After reading this, I’m not so sure.
Don’t pay attention Jen. It’s better to have a life than nothing to talk about at all except other people.
By the way, I had a dream about you last night! lol. This has never happened to me before (dreaming with internet people) but it was about you having a really younger sister that was dating an older (really dangerous)man. Somehow you got me involved and we had to go spy on the guy. It was kind of scary. Then the police got involved and I had to hide on a store and heard some shooting outside… lol. It was one of those dreams that never end hehe.
That bitch is crazy, someone should put her in her fucking place. For real She sound stupid and ignorant. Don’t even worry about it Jenn. I love visiting your site and i love reading about your BEAUTIFUL kids. Keep doing you.
What about the non children-related posts? Considering I do see quite a few of those as well. Are there rules about those, too? *snigger*
Oh, internet drama. How you amuse me.
Yeah Jenn, I go with what Vale said. At least you have positive things to write about whereas their site is nothing but one big bitchfest. There are plenty of us who love to read about Alyssa & Ryan, and as for the rest who don’t, they just need to go elsewhere. I laugh at people so much who waste such time dwelling on what they don’t like about other people’s sites. My motto has always been, “If you don’t like what I say, go away!”
Talk about a desperate cry for hits.
If people didn’t want to read about your kids (or anyones for that matter), they wouldn’t visit your site and/or comment. Most people who have you linked know you’re a mom and have to expect to see some sort of mention of your lovely children in your blogs.
If there are people out there who don’t want to read about them, then they can click the ‘x’ at the top of the screen. No one is holding a gun to their heads, forcing them to leaf through your entries.
I, however, love reading about other mama’s and their kids. But that’s probably because I rock and am not a coldhearted bitch.
Mehh, it was an apparent attempt to bring more hits in to her site (hypocritical). Girls that have to resort to bullying people on the internet and dedicate entire subdomains to belittling people are so ugly on the inside… Psychologists playground. And SO transparent.
It would be very easy to write an equally long and drawn out post about “rant blogs” and the number of people that agree with it would sky rocket.
omigod. this is YOUR page… if you wanna talk about ur adorable kids… it’s ur choice!!!
if people don’t wanna be on here… then they should go somewhere else … no?
Woah. I just read her blog and couldn’t believe what I saw. Where does she get off calling innocent babies that can’t defend them selves “ugly ass babies”?
I usually stay away from e-drama, unless im directly affected by them but seriously, she needs to get off her high horse.
Besides, she probably just posted it to get attention, and y’know a few extra comments.
Take care!
Honestly, I can’t stand people who hide behind computers and spout off about people and things they don’t like about blogs. Really, if you don’t like it, don’t read it. And if you stumble upon it and see things you don’t like, don’t stick around. I think it’s awful that someone would say stuff like that about you Jenn. Really….. to say nasty things about someone they don’t know, and about your kids too, it’s just wrong.
I, however, love reading about other mama’s and their kids. But that’s probably because I rock and am not a coldhearted bitch.
So Ashley, just because some people actually do not “love” to read about people’s children, that automatically makes them “coldhearted bitches”? I beg to differ.
It sounds like a ploy for hits, like Anna said. Simple as that.
But you know.. all of us stay at home Moms.. we’re all useless cows who have no ambition whatsoever. *eye roll*
Sarah, I think that was a direct jab at the author of the blog and you are reading too much into it.
That is really quite sad that she goes around complaining about the content that a persons journal has. It is your site afterall. The kids, plus your husband, are a huge part of your life. Why wouldn’t you talk about them?! Geez…
Why is this chick still around? Theres something really wrong in that brain of hers.Last i heard she was stealing poems and claming them as her own. Taking ideas and coding yet totally freaks out when people take her shit. Shes a hypocrite. People like that need to seek some help and stay off the net. No one cares about her anymore since they found out about the truth. The hits thing is probably what shes looking for.
That made me laugh (her blog post). Not only does she come and visit seemingly quite often… and comment… but then gets back around to seeing if her comments were -APPROVED- and gets her panties bundled if they weren’t.
I guess she was pissed that she didn’t get her ‘plug’ in your comments area … ? She got more than her fair share of pluggage now, though : )
okay, for me to be a bitch! yay! hehe, don’t worry about what they say jenn! because after looking at their pictures and sites, they look like two ghetto girls who have no life.
Even though I do believe that people these days are definitely being raised differently, I do have a hard time believing that what they chose to do over the internet has much to do with their up-bringing. I think people are just fucking bored.
Crap. I commented on the wrong entry. Not real sure how that happened.
haha this douche obviously has too much time on her hands. ignore her. in fact, kick her. people like that deserve to be shot.
Hi, fellow attention whore! Water off my slippery back *nod* You must oil up your back and the water shall fall freely :D
Um, wow. This is your journal. Post about whatever the hell you want. If people don’t want to read it, they can go rot.
I don’t really know you at all, but I’ve been reading your blog for a while. I don’t find it boring. As someone who has no kids and isn’t married, but DOES plan on getting married to her boyfriend AND having kids within the next five or six years, it fascinates me. It’s interesting to me to read about a young mother (I believe we’re around the same age) and see what Married With Children is all about. It prepares me for the future. haha
I like your journal, and besides yourself and your own desire to have a blog, people like me are the reason you post. People who are INTERESTED. It amuses me that the people that dislike it automatically assume you’re going to change what you write to appease them.
Ugh.
Honestly, ignore the fact that people are causing drama. It’s your page, and you should have the right to post about your family. If I was a mom, I would too, and being a housewife is not a sin and it’s not BAD. Just because you don’t have a job, don’t mean you don’t have a life. It’s respectful, especially in the Islamic traditions. Mothers are to take care of their kids at home.
It’s also nice for you to actually share about your life. I was lurking a few days ago, until bitchfit.net rudely posted hatred. I actually enjoy reading about your life and your family. It makes me want a family :D
She also ranted about Solae. Nobody really cared, to be honest. Solae didn’t care. Besides, I only visit Chanel’s website, and bitchfit.net because my friend admires her work. I honestly don’t think she did all that herself. Afterall, half the graphics she made are probably made with brushes.